I always make the earring wires with 20 gauge fine silver. I think that a heavier gauge is just too thick for many women. Twenty gauge is an average post size. I like fine silver .99, because it does not tarnish like sterling silver .95. I also make sure that the wire ends have been made smooth. There is nothing worse than a sharp ear wire.
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